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St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Sunday Holy Eucharist: 10:00 am


Staying Connected

WELCOME HOME!

Worship with us:

Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

in person and Live on Facebook

Stewardship packets were mailed. If you did not receive one and would like to, please let the church office know. 609.368.5922 jultaylor9425@gmail.com


You may read the Stewardship letter from Larry Schmidt, St. Mary's Stewardship Chair, at this link.

Your 2026 Pledge Form is Online for your convenience. 

Click here.


We accept donations via Venmo!

@StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Rector's Corner

Christ the King Sunday, A Feast for a Weary World


Beloved in Christ,


As we stand on the threshold of Advent, we first pause for a feast most of us did not grow up hearing much about, yet one that speaks powerfully to the moment we are living in. Christ the King Sunday is not simply a date on the calendar. It is a declaration, a proclamation, a holy insistence. It is the Church raising her voice and telling the truth in a world that prefers its kings to be cut from the cloth of domination, violence and fear.


A Feast Born of Turbulence

Christ the King is a relatively new observance. Pope Pius XI instituted it in 1925, a time when nationalism, fascism and authoritarian leaders were rising across Europe. The Church recognized a dangerous truth. People were being discipled by power instead of love, by empire instead of the Gospel. The feast was created as a quiet rebellion, a reminder that our allegiance is to Christ, whose rule reveals a kingdom built not by force but by mercy, justice and reconciliation.


Over time, the Anglican Communion wisely adopted the feast. In the Revised Common Lectionary it serves as the last Sunday of the liturgical year, the final word before the year resets. This is no accident. It is our annual reminder that the story ends not with chaos but with Christ, not with despair but with hope.


The Shape of a Different Kingdom

When we talk about kingship, many imagine crowns, armies and unquestioned authority. Yet the Gospel portrays a different kind of rule. Christ reigns with a towel draped over his arm. He rules from a cross. His coronation is marked by thorns, his victory by empty tomb and open hands.


In a world obsessed with supremacy, Christ reveals sovereignty through self-offering. In a time when leaders elevate themselves, Christ kneels to wash feet. In a world where people fight to be first, Christ announces that the least, the overlooked, the forgotten are closest to the heart of God.


This is what we celebrate. This is what we proclaim.

Christ’s kingdom is not sealed off. It breaks in. It interrupts. It transforms.


Why This Matters Right Now

We live in an age where fear shouts and cruelty masquerades as strength. People pledge loyalty to ideologies and personalities that promise security but deliver division. Many feel adrift, angry or exhausted. The world aches for a different way.

Christ the King Sunday answers that ache. It is the Church saying, with courage and clarity, that no earthly power gets the final word. Christ does.


No policy of hate, no movement of violence, no politician who claims godlike certainty; none of these can claim the devotion that belongs to Christ alone.

For those who are hurting, this feast offers grounding.

For those weary of lies, this feast offers truth.

For those longing for justice, this feast promises a kingdom where the hungry are fed, the stranger is welcomed, and every tear is wiped away.


A Call to Live the Kingdom Now

As baptized people, we take vows. We promise to follow Jesus, to resist evil, to strive for justice and peace, to respect the dignity of every human being. Christ the King Sunday reminds us that these promises are not pretty ideals. They are acts of allegiance. They are how we participate in God’s kingdom breaking into the world.

When we forgive, when we feed, when we welcome, when we speak truth to power, when we refuse to bow to hatred, we are living under the reign of Christ.


Closing

As we enter this final Sunday of the church year, may you feel both the comfort and the challenge of Christ’s kingship. Not the kingship of conquest, but of compassion. Not the reign of force, but of fierce love.

The world is hungry for this kingdom, and God is trusting us to help reveal it.

May Christ reign in our lives, our choices, our community, and our hope.

And may that reign turn us toward the Advent promise that God is already drawing near.


With Love and Steadfast Hope,

Mo. Allison+

Hello everyone ❤️


I want to start by saying this: I am not a runner. But my baba (dad, in Turkish) always taught me to do the things that scare me… so here I am, training to run 13.1 miles at the end of February. But this race isn’t about me. It’s about something much bigger. I wouldn’t have had the courage or faith to even sign up if it weren’t for God guiding me and for the love I’ve received from St. Mary’s. This church has been a true home for me. Mother Allison baptized me and has been the kindest, wisest Reverend I’ve ever met. The community has held me through so much and I’m deeply so grateful.


And because Stone Harbor is a summer beach town, the winter months bring far fewer people which means far less income to support the ministry. In Stone Harbor and Avalon — one of the wealthiest towns in the country (yes, even Taylor Swift spent her childhood summers here!)


 So I felt called to do something. To use my voice, my feet and my faith to help. I’m not here asking anyone for huge amounts of money. Truly ANYTHING helps. If you feel moved to give $2, $5, $10, it would mean the world. Every bit goes toward keeping St. Mary’s ministry alive. Thank you so much for reading, and God bless you for any support, prayers, shares or donations. ❤️



https://gofund.me/498f1683f



 With love, Emel


Service of Thanksgiving November 23rd

The 7 mile churches will join together in a shared ecumenical service of praise and thanksgiving on November 23rd at 2:00 pm. The service will be held at Maris Stella Church, Avalon.


If you would like to participate by singing the anthem, please come to Maris Stella prior to the service at 1:30 for a brief rehearsal.


Fellowship and refreshments will follow the service. Hope to see you there!


TOYS FOR TEENS
St. Mary's November and December outreach


Our giving basket outreach for November and December is “Toys for Teens”. We are gathering donations of toys and items for teens to help our local chapter of Toys for Tots. So often people donate toys for younger children, but the organization doesn't get many donations that are appropriate gifts for teens. We hope to collect items for teenagers that they can give to needy families this Christmas. 

Some suggested items are:

Ear buds/headphones

wireless/portable phone chargers

wallets

Bluetooth speakers

bike lights

cozy blankets

Beanbag chairs

reusable water bottles/ “Stanley” type reusable mugs

Fidget toys/Stress Balls-toys

card games like Uno

Gift Cards for 5 Below, Chipotle, Starbucks, Dunkin Donuts


Gifts should be unwrapped.

If you have any questions, please ask any vestry member.

Shopping lists for ideas may be found in the church and parish hall. Please help yourself. You may also download a list here.

Donations may be brought to the parish hall, chapel, church office, or on Sunday.

Deadline for donations is: Friday, December 5th

Holiday Cookie Stroll November 29th


This year's delicious Holiday Cookie Stroll will be held on Saturday, November 29th from 11 am to 1 pm. PLEASE help by baking cookies or on the day of the Stroll. This is a fundraiser to help support the church budget.


Sign-up sheets are in the parish hall and church. 


And please spread the word - invite your friends, neighbors, family to come and purchase holiday cookies!


2025-2026 Calendar Sale

Stone Harbor 2025-2026 calendars are available for sale featuring beautiful photography by Craig Miller of the Stone Harbor beaches and town. Cost is $20. Net proceeds from your purchase supports Citizens Veterans Advisory Committee, The Branches Outreach and the Stone Harbor Chamber of Commerce. The calendars are available in the parish hall.

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Forward Day By Day 
November, December, January

The November, December, January edition of Forward Day by Day is now available in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for someone who may enjoy this devotional. If you would like us to mail one to you, please contact the church office. 609.368.5922


Forward Day by Day is a booklet of daily inspirational meditations reflecting on a specific Bible passage, chosen from the daily lectionary readings as listed in the Revised Common Lectionary or the Daily Office from the Episcopal Church's Book of Common Prayer.

Stewardship Minute

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/

We have joined Venmo! If you have Venmo, you can donate to the church - @StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Formation/ Education

The Baptismal Covenant

p. 304-5 in

The Book of Common Prayer.

The baptismal covenant “is widely regarded as the normative statement of what it means to follow Christ” in these questions and answers, the congregation expresses the ways each of the faithful will live their faith both inside and outside the church walls.

 

The first four questions are patterned on the Apostles’ Creed, with the liturgy’s celebrant asking the people about their beliefs in each of the members of the Trinity, along with a concise understanding of their natures. Following these questions, the covenant includes five questions regarding how we, as Christians, are called to live out our faith: with firm commitment and a reliance on God’s help. (click on the picture to take you to a Larger Version)


What We Believe

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Timeline

History: Timeline For more information, visit or contact The Archives of The Episcopal Church. This page is available in: Español

Music & Liturgy

Music & Liturgy Liturgy is the term for the church's sacramental rites and texts used in public worship. In An Episcopal Dictionary of the Church (Church Publishing, 2000), Don S. Armentrout and [...]

Sunday Coffee Hour


Please join us for Coffee Hour on Sundays after service in the parish hall.

It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.

If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.

You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!


CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.


Christ the King

Jeremiah 23:1-6

Psalm 46

Colossians 1:11-20

Luke 23:33-43

Worship Services

Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

St. Mary's 2025 Vestry

Sr. Warden

Lillian Armstrong


Jr. Warden

Cheryl Lukens Oleferuk

 

Clerk of the Vestry

Dina Ziemba

 

Vestry

Cathy Johnson

Allyn Penkethman

Kate Rodriguez


Treasurer

Jack Olthuis


The Annual Report for 2024 may be downloaded here.

Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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