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How many of you remember an organization called "Y Wives”?
Back in the day -- '40s and '50s -- when most of the YMCA professional staff were male, there was an organization called Y Wives for their spouses.
This organization met monthly and was charged with planning a social calendar for the Y's professional staff families.
We had recently arrived in San Diego when Charlotte received a call from one of the Y Wives’ members inviting her to attend their next meeting. Charlotte accepted this invitation and joined the group. She began attending the meetings regularly.
It wasn't long before one of the professional staff members was hired by a different Association. It was a Y Wives tradition to plan a going-away party for departing staff members.
Charlotte drew the short straw to select a going-away gift for the departing family. This responsibility also included collecting a donation from each remaining member to purchase the gift.
Charlotte recruited a couple of the other wives to serve on her gift committee, calling the other wives to ask for donations for the going-away gift and to purchase it.
It was getting close to the night of the party, and the committee had not received much cash. They decided they would purchase a gift with the funds they had collected to date.
Obviously, it was going to be a modest gift, but the committee did the best they could with the funds they had received.
The going-away party was well attended. All evening, people came up to Charlotte and handed her envelopes with money for the gift. The committee ended up with a pile of cash... much more than the cost of the modest gift. Just too late to matter.
Our most outspoken staff member, who shall remain nameless, took Charlotte aside and chewed her out royally for buying "such a cheap gift." She tried to explain that it was a committee decision and why, but he would hear none of it. It was her fault and hers alone.
That was the end of Charlotte's involvement with the Y Wives.
Photo: That's not Charlotte in the AI-generated image of a '40s-'50s-era Y Wives member. Please spare us the outrage. It's just meant in fun, based on an AI description of the group as "supportive homemakers." -Editor
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